How do I "backpedal" after revealing I have herpes?
I would cancel the trip and get to know him better before you even consider any further arrangements. He was obviously expecting a sexual relationship during the time you were to be together. He could have anything, you don't know, especially as he was so willing to just jump into a sexual liaison;
PS "dealbreaker" does not exactly give me the impression of long term committment!;I think Huggs is on the right track. As a physician I can tell you for certain that (as you most likely know) herpes is a highly contagious STD. Although if you are taking an antiviral medication such as Zovirax, Famvir, or Valtrex your chances of having an outbreak are significantly reduced. It is however still possible (although remote) that when not currently having an outbreak you can spread the virus. Here's a good "backpedal" for you... one person in four statistically have the herpes virus. Most people that have it will never know since they have iether only had one outbreak or none at all. In my opinion, you should get to know your sexual partners before engaging in sexual activities with them. If this gentleman is worth it to you, and you are worth it to him... then postpone your tryst to a later date and just get to know eachother. Educate him about your condition, and if you still wish to have sex do so with caution. In a monogamous sexual relationship while taking medication it is actually signifigantly less common to spread the virus. I wish you the best.I think you should cancel the trip.
A two day trip with someone you have never met is a bit fast even if you did not have herpes.
Go a little slower is my advice.
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