5/28/2012

My wife found out she may have herpes what should I do?


My wife found out she may have herpes what should I do?

I'm not sure if herpes can lay dormant for years or not, but... IF you truly trust her, then there's no reason to end your marriage because she wasn't cheating. On the other hand, if herpes cannot lay dormant for years than she has been cheating and therefore you should see a counsellor and decide what to do. For your sex life, make sure you use protection while you are just having sex for fun... make sure you never have sex when she thinks she's getting an outbreak and all that fun stuff. She should be on a medication so that she has less breakouts. Concerning your future children, there are two different types of herpes. Type I and Type II. Type I is that brought on by sexual encounters and the one which is the blistering "down-there". Type II is that given to your offspring if they receive any herpes. It is that which causes cold sores around the mouth. It is still safe to get her pregnant, just make sure you don't get herpes as well.Yes herpes can lay dormant and will only flare up every so often. They are just like cold sores. I wouldn't worry that she was cheating as it definitely could be from a long time ago. It is safe to get her pregnant as long as she's getting treatment for it and no your baby will not contract the herpes.Yes hepres can lay dormant for many years especially if she is on valtrex or acyclovir (medication to suppress outbreaks caused by the herpes virus). I know people who have had herpes lay dormant for over 10 years so Im sure your wife is not cheating on you. If you really love your wife then your sex life shouldn't change. Just make sure she starts taking valtrex (it greatly reduces the risk of her spreading it to you..im not sure of the statistic) but my boyfriend and i have been having sex for over a year without using a condom and he still does not have genital herpes. So getting pregnant shouldn't be an issue if your willing to take that risk. I do know that herpes can be fatal to newborn infants although it is estimated that only 1 to 4 infants in 1000 will become infected. The odds that an infant will contract herpes from its mother is greatly lessened if a Cesarean Section is performed on the mother. But, i know the doctor will only perform a C section if your wife is currently having signs of getting or does have an outbreak during the time of birth. Good luck and dont let this change your life.. support your wife herpes is a diffucult painful thing to expierence and go through by yourself.




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  1. It was the first time my granddaughter came to me and confided about her battle with oral and genital herpes and her self destructive thoughts.
    A gaping vacuum of fear and love opened inside me. I knew what it felt like for her to be in such a situation. But after hearing how someone I loved so dearly struggled I have no option but to promise her help. I wanted to help in all possible ways. I sought counsels from an old and experienced nurse whom I've known to deal on natural herbs because I believed in nature. After hearing from me she smiled and before I could say another word she replied me there's cure but natural herbs. I don't care as long as my child is cured! I shouted. She told me about a doctor in Africa who has cured people of herpes. She gave me his email drutuherbalcure@gmail.com ,I contacted him immediately and then ordered medicine for my child which he sent through the UPS courier to me. My daughter started medication and the next day her mouth sores were physically healing and she told me it's working and within four weeks she testified to me that she was cured! I've always believed that nature has cure for any diseases and I'm happy to tell everyone my child is cured.
    Six months later we went for another test to be sure and here is the result,
    Six months after medications;
    Her hsv1&2 test results;
    Igm - 1.49
    IgG - 0.36
    She don't have any symptoms again and has moved on happily and is now in a serious relationship with her fiancee

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  2. I frequently get cold sores(which lasts for 5-6 days on my lips and its painful both physically and mentally) .. As a bodybuilder, I basically get outbreak due to the daily pressure and heat in the body.. Recently I stumbled upon my salvation. I found a herbal remedy to cure hsv completely, in just 4weeks ..

    I got to know about Dr Utu after seeing a lady's testimony online. I reached the doctor and I ordered for herpes herbal medicine. He sent the herbs to me and I started making use of them. In just 2days, the cold sores are cleared. 4weeks after medication, I went to the hospital for test of cold sores and it was completely NEGATIVE.

    By following every prescription, i was able to cure my cold sore in less than 4weeks. 100% natural herbs no after effect.
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    Note : follow all instructions accordingly..

    If you are sure that you have benefited from this African herbs be courageous to inform others.
    Thanks in advance

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  3. My family have gotten to know Dr. Odey Abang for Herpes cure when i was 19 years old. Im 21 now, i got infected by the virus in college. It was totally a messed for my career,i cried out daily with the painful sore in my mouth.Sundenly the symptoms got appeared in my Genital region, my test came out positive of (HSV2).My mom is a home service nurse. She thought as much as my result could came out, she called on the Dr. Odey for assistance since he had cured for HIV VIRUS for helped, few days later i received my medicine from the Curiae service as a parcel sent to me from Dr Odey. Took in the medicine twice daily and can recover fully now..my HSV result came negative through the herbalist helped.
    I'm so fine.. Herpes is so discounting..
    When i got in contact with him,i found out that the Herpes and other virus he mentioned
    Syphilis,Herpetties, sickle sell, gonorrhea, Diabetes, kidney faliur, low/week erection/ ejaculation, mestural problem........
    All this have been cured through the mavellous works of DR.ODEY Abang
    thanks my sweet mom your great help to set me free
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  4. Happiness is all i see now big thanks to Dr. Ubarlo from West Africa (NIGERIA), I never thought that I will live on earth before the year runs out. I have been suffering from a deadly disease herpes Virus for the past 2 years now; I had spent a lot of money going from one place to another, hospitals have been my home every day. Constant checks have been my hobby not until this blessed day, I was searching through the Internet, I saw a testimony on how Dr. Ubarlo. from West Africa (NIGERIA) helped someone in curing his herpes Virus . quickly I copied his Whatsapp Contact: +2348119508814 just to give him a test I spoke to him, he asked me to do some certain things which I did,he told me that he is going to provide the herbal cure to me, which he did, then he asked me to go for medical checkup after some days after using the herbal medication, I was free from the deadly disease, he only asked me to post the testimony through the whole world, faithfully am doing it now, please brothers and sisters, he is great, I owe him in return. if you are having a similar problem just contact him by Email: at drubarlohome@gmail.com whatsapp him on +2348119508814 HIS HAVE THE CURE TO THIS FOLLOWING DEADLY DISEASE [1] Ischemic heart disease [2] Cerebrovascular disease [3] Lower respiratory infections [4] Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease [5] Diarrhea diseases [6] Trachea, bronchus, lung cancers [7] Tuberculosis [8] Diabetes mellifluous [9] Hypertension heart disease [10] HIV/AIDS

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